Perhaps most of today's people are really not created for family relationships. Our parents - that generation were different. More responsible, more serious. The family was created "forever". Divorce seemed terrible and shameful. Unmarried and single were considered "strange".

Now even the search for a "partner" has become so simple that it is perceived as a game. Played - fled. No one owes nothing to nobody. And I must admit that now it is optimal. Life itself has led to the fact that such a relationship is better - at this stage. Free. Because marriage is no longer a condition for survival. And, it would seem, just now you can afford to live with feelings - when they keep official ties less. However, it turns out the other way around

Everyone became advanced. Everyone wants to be self-sufficient individuals with high self-esteem, to use technology (although the obvious overuse of them sometimes makes you feel no less sick than the classics of Jehovah's Witnesses: “Do you want to talk about God?”). They want to win friends and influence them. Surprisingly, everyone wants to be successful charismatic leaders, and to be loved, listened to, respected, adored ... Who? all the rest, whom they will manage ... Nobody wants to fall in love himself. And if such an attack appears - then drive it in the neck! To be released urgently is an addiction, a pathology! Get rid of it by buying a course in psychology, listen and meditate, praise your own self. "Well, how is it, why am I thinking about him?" - a friend complains. - "I don’t want to! Let him suffer, I didn’t find myself in the garbage!" Let, of course. Then it would be mutual and wonderful. But not only him, but - you and him!

And the word "love" is terribly stupid and old-fashioned. What are you ... I will love only when the partner proves that he is worthy of the relationship. And then I will not fall in love, but "I will build the right relationship." And if I leave, then no regret.
It seems that love was equated with a disease from which many have already been vaccinated.