I'll start with examples to brighten up your visualization!
✔️ The girl is fat - “if they love and will love such as I am”, “I accept myself and love”! *
* quotes from all popular current trainings (books / marathons / famous coaches)!
✔️ A person with a bad character - "special / not a hypocrite / with a twist"!
✔️ A man, without the desire to make a normal living - “has the right to choose life the way he wants / enough for life, why more / these are all imposed stereotypes / sexism, in the end”!
✔️ It didn’t work out - “everything is done, everything is for the best”!
✔️ Didn't - “you have the right to rest! You're human too!
And so in everything!
We are taught from all sources to see the positive, to find it even where there is none at all!
On the one hand - good!
It helps to relate to life easier and cope with stressful situations!
And yet - it justifies us!
It justifies our shoals, laziness, reluctance!
Yes, it justifies!
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Have you already heard the "alarm bell" of this post?))
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No, being able to see EXCLUSIVELY good in everything is not right!
Sometimes you need to include a realist!

❗️Thick? Lose weight! Or you will have health problems!
❗️No money to live the way you want? Have you done everything for this? Exactly? Or maybe not? How many hours do you sleep? Try less!
❗️Children not listening? They are NOT SPECIAL! They are naughty!
❗️Does your husband doesn't respect, care and any love? Doesn't hit and # Glory to God? Seriously? It's too lazy to even comment on this installation ...
❗️No friends and don't need? Maybe not ... But it's easier with them!
You just need to be able to be friends!
❗️Work does not suit, but at least this? Do you do smth that to change it?

And life goes on ... the clock is ticking ..
A terrible dream in the end of life to view turn back and be surprised at how negative the result will be!

Seeing positive is great!
But it is objective realism that makes you get up and do!
Do, do and DO again! and keep positiv)
Do, guys)!
Today is a great day to start! I hug)!