To love is to suffer.

Who said?

What do you think the creator is so evil, and we are on this earth in order to suffer?

Do you think that by suffering and enduring, you deserve a better life?

NOT!

The universe does not require this sacrifice from us.

We sacrifice ourselves by virtue of our habitual thinking strategies, stereotypes about how it should be.

We are on this earth in order to live in joy and receive pleasure.

The hell in which we live, we create for ourselves, with our bad attitude towards ourselves, when we connect our lives with people who are not suitable for us.

The payment of the Universe for what we want is what prevents us from getting it.

We solve the problem, overcome the obstacle - this is a fee.

We ourselves move to a higher level and we have more opportunities and new obstacles.

So we grow and the quality of our life grows, self-satisfaction grows and we feel freer and happier.

Thanks to my addiction, I have become what I have become, freer and matured psychologically, became happier and look to my future with confidence.

I live most of the time, as I want, communicate with those with whom I want, do what I want and what is necessary to achieve my goals.

For this I had to do a lot, endure, overcome, learn a lot.

But it's worth it to live at least a little.

And now there are difficulties that I am overcoming, I will overcome these, there will be new difficulties.

Difficulties are like in a game, quests, one passed one level, and then the next one.

When we cope with our difficulties, it "pays" for love and happiness.