Recently, I heard the phrase “we just lived for some years” a couple of times. Is it that simple "SIMPLY" when it comes to 6-10 years of life? 🤔

This form of relationship is called "civil marriage", that is, marriage without a stamp in the passport, official registration and wedding, and without words"wife" and "husband".

The arguments that I heard in favor of the above:
- the stamp in the passport does not solve anything. The question of providing, caring, loyalty, planning - in the head. Whether married or not, all this may or may not be;
-the question with the documents disappears by itself;
- the rights of children in both cases are fully protected, etc.

Then the question!
Why do people get married if everything is SO SIMPLE!?! Are the female and male views on this different?

Why are people so respectful of a man who has not “dated for 15 years,” but immediately decided to make his girlfriend a wife?

Even if we consider marriage as a kind of protection of women's rights, then even so, even so, they are not protected! And here again the question of "personality". If a man is decent, then at least she will not stay with the children at the station. Here you can talk about a marriage contract, but among people with our mentality, it sounds like a Western slap in the face, sweeping aside “great unselfish love” 😏! Exactly until the moment you come across this question.

But even if we talk only about the spiritual, is the feeling “in marriage” and “in civil marriage” the same? Since this is my post, most likely the final part should be with my opinion, huh?)

The official registration of a relationship is a recognition of both the fact that this is your partner and the fact that you are also taking responsibility for his/her life. This is protection, care, future, love.
And "civil marriage", which is analogous to "wait and see", is a veiled search for a "better option"!

Yes, not always! Yes, and I have happy and not very happy familiar couples in those and those statuses! And yes, I would really like to hear arguments with your point of view, does the "stamp" in the passport solve something?