It is especially incomprehensible to me when you have someone who has feelings for you and you promise this to forget the other. As for me, this is mean and low in relation to the person who loves and betrayal of that love, which even though it collapsed, but it was so easy not to forget the one who was important.
You cannot accept the feelings of the other until you are cured of your previous relationship, because a broken heart cannot be cured with the help of the other. It's impossible.
Only being alone and through awareness can such a desired recovery of your heart come and only by completely letting go of your past can you let another person into your heart. And you know what? I believe this is correct. Only after recovering from old relationships and a person, you can let someone into your life, otherwise it is already using the feelings of other people, a way to forget someone with the help of another. And if you are lucky enough to meet really your person and for some reason you broke up, then this is absolutely no reason to replace him or her with others. Yes, and it is impossible to forget the one with whom the happiest memories and deepest feelings for him are connected. It is so easy not to forget them and certainly not to be cured by someone else. You just can get sick, but with the passage of time. You cannot immediately take a dear person and forget, as if there was nothing. Do you really think you can make yourself fall in love with someone? No you can not. Love, it either appears or not. There is no other way.
Can't be loved by order. This is unrealistic. Never heal your heart with another person, with the help of someone you will not corrode the one you love, no matter how you try. They can only get sick alone, as I said before. The only way. You don't have to play on other people's feelings in order to forget someone. This is at least wrong, but mostly despicable. Other people are not to blame for the fact that you are trying to use them for your own purposes, do not give hope to those people who are in love with you. You can never love someone against your will, thus wanting to forget your loved one. All this is disgusting, somehow disgusting from all this, honestly ... do not heal your hearts with other people. Will not work. So you can still get an answer in the face of a boomerang when, having played enough, run away to the one you love.