You could well have met in your past incarnations, but now it can be a completely different person, both externally and internally. With your cockroaches in your head and your own special world inside yourself.
I want to say that real intimacy is not only eye-to-eye looks and closeness of the body. True closeness is when two souls touch each other and become one. One soul for two. It is so much more than just Love that words cannot describe it. This is the very thing that you need to feel, feel with every cell of your being. Feel and feel.
The real closeness is between souls. And before, to understand whether it is your person or not, you need to know everything in him. And to accept as he is now and always will be, this is the real closeness between people. Accept and understand your person ...