This is really important to us, this is how we feel interested in us. With every desire a man turns to our inner awareness of himself. There are situations when we just want others to admire us, look with interest, catch the glances peeking in. This is an indescribable feeling of power over the situation, when they want to but cannot even touch you.
For example, I never specifically invite anyone to meet me, I do not flirt and do not nude so that my desires are too noticeable, I prefer inaccessibility. Inaccessibility is a woman's trump card. By undressing her you start a game of desire with her.