Often the offender does not apologize and does not know that we are still offended by something there. Or maybe he knows, but this load is bad for us, but he is not bad at all there, and on the contrary, he is not good.
And we are indignant: "Oh, how bad he is. He feels good there, but we feel so bad." In many situations, two are often to blame. Not even that they are guilty, but rather everyone looks at the situation depending on their own picture of the world. And everyone, as you know, is different. And what is insulting to one person may be perceived by others as the norm. Much also depends on the circumstances and on how the situation developed.
Why am I writing all this...
To ensure that we take offense as little as possible and forgive those who once offended us. After all, then it will become easy for us to breathe, we will soar with happiness and enjoy life to the fullest. After all, those who offend us in most cases do not do it purposefully. And with those who purposefully deal with the Lord God. So let's forgive as much as possible! After all, those who have ever offended us are also victims of someone else's insults. And in general, resentment is a reaction to someone's words or actions that could have a completely different meaning or intention...