I often hear from my friends that my husband or partner does not give money or it’s embarrassing to ask for something. After all, men are alien to the understanding of 120 boots and a millionth coat.

Most often it looks like this: "You are sitting at home, why?", "You will definitely give it back later." Constant jokes. It is unbearable to listen to it, not that living with it.

I am sure that the total budget is a humiliation for both. It turns out that my significant other does not fully own her account - she is at work and receives SMS from me about my purchases? Sounds awful. It turns out that a woman cannot buy anything without reporting to a man, because any waste arrives by SMS from the bank ...

Personally, I have had the experience when my money is my money and it seems that the partner's money is common. Also a delusion.

So isn't it easier to transfer interest from the income of a woman and a man to a common account, and everything else, in an equal amount to a common account?

Due to confusion, who put how much and who owes whom to whom, the relationship falls apart. After all, this is not just a complaint about who washed the dishes and who did not. This is work and invested labor, which is devalued as a result.

Instead of a general budget, there should be a general UNDERSTANDING, CONFIDENCE that we will always SUPPORT EACH OTHER financially and will not ask for an expense.

That is why people and together, in order to be near and support in difficult times, be it health, relationships with loved ones or finances.

Although finances for some are more important than anything else, although these are just pieces of paper ... but unfortunately, you cannot survive without them. Do you think the couple should have a common budget or separate ones? Can you not make a claim to a woman for the next boots, cream or lipstick?