As you know im reaching 42 (cough 21) very soon and in my time here i have got to learn much about the womankinds world in both here and uk ..the reason i came to this site which seems a lifetime ago ... was to finally be together with my soulmate ..i already know she is here and she knows already who she is and to be honest me not being to reach her and tell her personally is heartbreaking even for me , but i am not typing about that i am blogging my reasons for being here and why i chose this site ... my way of life isnt so different to the men and women here , we all have had misfortunes in finding love and want to find sincerity and compassion and love in another and to stay focused in life as we grow old to the chosen one who chooses us ...forever thankful that they are happy with that wish they always wanted ..yes we do keep it real ..all my blogs keep it real

but i came here to find happiness and love ... love is such a huge burden in life we love and have hearts broken yet we still try and find the love we all need ..but along the way we experience life from another way ... we learn how to be parents be it for me it was in the stepfather role ..but i know i am a good father ..i take responsiblity very seriously ...most here in the uk dont and i am sorry to spoil the perception of uk men but some really are not family minded as many women here seem to think ...most do abuse and hurt women and that for me is not love , its not care or tenderness whatsoever its abuse and many do get punished for it ...

but there are some minority few who were raised the best way but i read the many whos lives have been sad ..and to be honest i feel for them ..i feel they should have someone like me , of course they will find a variant, but there is only one of me but life as we all know is a burden we all have to face from birth we struggle we learn but foremost we love and if we all take a moment to reflect this and show we are the ones who we are meant to be then take the moment share it with just one person ..believe in that person ..dont give up on them cause they only read just your leters believe they are your soulmate ,,,cause really what will happen next is both the wishes of both of you

learn what there is to both of you listen to the heart ..i wish i had my heart listen to sometimes it will show the fragments more of past happenings the experience the heartbreak and the willingness to prove they are number one , dont give up dont neglect there is a reason you wrote dont lose that dont lose that feeling you have cause thats real ... they will never abandon you ..they will always value you ..if they have made a way to reach you ..dont lose that cause they cant do it on site ..they have pure feelings for you ...they want to share all that they have cause you are ultimately who completes them

remember you are special for a reason ...dont lose that

and ultimately they will love you forever ...my best wishes to all of you who are in love and going on the right path together


a word from the old fashioned raised man on site