And she “works” on herself not only to please men, she “works” on herself so that, first of all, she likes herself. When a woman sees a stunning image in the mirror, these insanely expressive eyes, these alluring scarlet lips, this gorgeous figure with emphasized "places" - she feels great.
Every seducer knows about all the "problem" zones better than any compassionate "advisor", therefore, only she herself has the moral right to criticize herself. Critical comments from the outside will be perceived not as advice for action, but as a gross interference in personal space.
Men love to philosophize about souls, but they look at appearance. They like to look at pretty and sleek beauties, appreciate them, admire them, because women are like flowers - bright, unique and attractive. All men understand this perfectly, but not all, unfortunately, fully realize how much time and effort has been invested in this beauty...