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Ignorance and the damage it can cause: THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WRITE!!!
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Ok.... now I am annoyed. I have to be very careful how I word this blog because I want it to be published – so take it from me; this is a much diluted version of what I would like to say.
It would seem that some people on this site, aside from being illiterate, have very ignorant opinions. I don’t know you Mikejedi, but you strike me as someone who is self-obsessed and ill-informed. Your latest blog has irritated me much, and I’m pretty sure I won’t be the only one to reply to it. I am not the ‘blogging’ type, but, I believe the function of the blog facility on this site wasn’t added for the purpose of ‘attention seeking’ or, indeed, a personal podium to spout rubbish. Instead, I think its purpose was for the use of everyone to guide, inform and help each other. The only reason I posted my blog ‘Keeping it real’ was because I wanted to maybe high-light the possible pit-falls that can be associated with internet-dating. Ok, let me tell you why you have annoyed me. And no, I haven’t corrected your terrible grammar...
‘when neglect becomes a burden and life isnt a life anymore’ – this doesn’t even make sense.

“i take responsiblity very seriously ...most here in the uk dont and i am sorry to spoil the perception of uk men but some really are not family minded as many women here seem to think ...most do abuse and hurt women and that for me is not love , its not care or tenderness whatsoever its abuse and many do get punished for it ...”

MOST here in the UK don’t (take responsibility)??! MOST do abuse and hurt women??! Be grateful, Mikejedi, you are not standing in front of me. It doesn’t matter what country you live in, you will always have a percentage of the people who do not behave in a civilised manner. I happen to think this is a SMALL percentage, it certainly isn’t the majority. This is a gross exaggeration on your part, and I, for one, am very annoyed. You then go on to say (again, I have not corrected your grammar);

“but there are some minority few who were raised the best way but i read the many whos lives have been sad ..and to be honest i feel for them ..i feel they should have someone like me , of course they will find a variant, but there is only one of me...”

I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, and acknowledge that MAYBE you are a nice guy (albeit a very ignorant one), but if you are holding yourself up as a shining example compared to everyone else in my country, I find that insulting. I had a terrible and very violent childhood, but I, in my opinion, have turned into a decent, respectable and hard working man. I have always treated women with the upmost respect; I’ve never harmed so much as a single hair of any woman and the thought of it churns my stomach. You have insinuated that most of the men in the UK beat their women regularly – I cannot tell you how angry this has made me!! Your ‘up-bringing’ has a bearing on your personality, but I happen to think you are able to over-ride any pre-conditioning if you have the mind and will to do so. I am disgusted at your choice of words, your insinuations and your blatant disrespect for your countrymen. Next time you choose to blog something I ask that you (don't?)think about what you want to say, and not run your mouth and insult everyone that isn’t YOU.
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