You know my mother always told me not to try to change people and not to try to change a man I am with. Before when I was a teenager, I didn’t understand it, because If I don’t like something about my friend or boyfriend why not to tell it and not to try to change it? But right now, I know for sure that in order to have a strong lasting relationship with a man you need to take him as he is for right now. If you really love a man, then you have to accept him for who he is and stop trying to make him into someone else. You can certainly help him improve a few qualities, but on the whole, you should love him for who he is, not who you hope he will be))