I get many letters from many women here on this site and trust me some letters I received are very difficult to explain. Any I don't drink alcohol that much and when I do consume it it's a rare special occasion.
I never in my life hit or beat a woman. My opinion in this matter is that if a guy beats his partner he is not considered a man. I believe that me and my future spouse can calmly work out our disadvantage or disagreement together without having to be angry upon ourselves.
Another aspect of my life is that I do not control my woman. If I'm in a serious relationship and if she allows herself to be open and honest with me I will be doing the same thing. I never like hurting a womans feelings.