There is such an interesting theory: we are all born with a box of matches inside, and since we cannot light ourselves, we, as during the experiment, need oxygen and a candle flame.
True, in this case, oxygen, for example, can be the breath of a loved one, and a candle can be any food, caress or voice, so one of our matches is lit. For a moment, we feel as though we were blinded by a hot feeling. A pleasant ardor arises in us, which gradually disappears until a new explosion returns it to our body.
Everyone should understand what kind of fuses they have, because the heat arising from the ignition of one of them fills the soul with energy.
Do you already know what oxygen and candle flame are for you?