Most families in my country live with a common budget that is held by one of the partners, whether it is a woman or a man. That is, when a man receives a salary, he completely gives it to a woman and she disposes of it, but at the same time the man asks for his expenses every time. I think this is wrong.
In my opinion, the money should be in a separate accessible place for two, if you need to take a large amount, then of course it is worth discussing with your other half. You calculate your budget together so that you have enough. It is not necessary to push the financial responsibility on one of the partners. Now I'm not talking about rich men who can provide for their woman completely. I'm talking about middle-income families.