It may seem strange, but their behavior under certain circumstances is so similar that it even sometimes amazes me - I mean their non-feminine independence in making decisions and implementing them. In addition, regardless of the accomplished different images, there is absolutely no sexuality in them, that very attractiveness for real men! Why do you think?

Deciding to find out, over a cup of tea I had to listen to their long stories about trips to the construction market for tile glue, about cleaning an injector in a car service and about repairing plumbing with an adjustable wrench and some kind of gaskets. And it's not that they had no one to entrust these fascinating duties, not at all - they have companions and gentlemen who will gladly take on all these chores, which can rightfully be considered male, but my young ladies do not consider turning to them for help necessary. This is the secret of the fact that real men do not see them as sexy women! Indeed, the very definition of sexuality implies the presence of qualities that can arouse sexual interest in the opposite sex. And this interest is caused precisely by the distinctive qualities of a woman from a man. But, no similarities.
Let's try to figure out why they became like this.
Many times we tried with them to understand where this lifestyle comes from. I call this a way of life, because the desire to solve everything on their own is deeper than just a habit: they need to take control of literally everything. And there seems to be a reason for this.
Every woman who adopts a masculine character and masculine demeanor does it for one single reason - because at the right moment there was no man next to her who would take the solution to her problems upon himself. The rest of the details: one has financial problems, the other has dysfunctional neighbors, the third has a divorce, a child, a rented apartment and work. And here you are: they make repairs themselves, defend their rights in state institutions themselves, fix the car themselves and disperse the hooligans from the shops at the entrance. As a result - the loss of femininity, not only in the image, but also, in fact.
In principle, what is wrong with that, you ask? It would seem - live for your own pleasure, if you yourself are the blacksmith of your own happiness and no one can say a word to you.
There is a fly in the ointment in such a lifestyle. As practice shows, women with a strong character can have a hard time in personal relationships. I think I will not be mistaken if I say that each of us needs a real man - strong and confident in himself. But such a person, unfortunately, will not tolerate competition in his field, and it is very difficult for two strong personalities to get along.
I think that the best recipe in this case is to give in to a man, albeit after an argument, and leaving the last word for him. Even if you are sure that you are one hundred percent right, sometimes it is better to keep your innocence to yourself. Of course, in full accordance with the ancient male military principle: to lose the battle to win the war. After all, as you can see, harsh principles can also be found in a woman's character.