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How to behave on a first date
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Before the first - unpredictable, long-awaited - date, many cannot resist the excitement and try to think over their actions and words. And even if the "first" dates in your life were already many, every time you experience excitement. And, of course, the course of a date is impossible to predict, so your only goal on the first date is to make a decent first impression and learn as much as possible about the man.

According to opinion polls, men under 25 years old primarily value beauty, sexuality and a sense of humor in women, and older men - intelligence, caring and tenderness.
When talking about yourself, talk only about what may really be of interest to your companion. At the same time, you should radiate self-confidence, do not be afraid to talk about your little joys and achievements. If a woman behaves confidently and with dignity, men always believe that there is a reason for this and conclude that there is something in this woman that cannot but interest them. At the same time, be natural, because if you are counting on a long-term relationship with a man, you will still not be able to constantly pretend and play someone else's role.

Consider a date primarily as an opportunity to have a good time with the new person you are talking to. Usually men do not like to lose their leadership and, moreover, to transfer it to a woman. Proactive women can only be of interest to indecisive men who are not confident in their abilities and are afraid that the ladies will not take their courtship well.
To inspire frank conversations, praise him more often, say that he is a very interesting conversationalist, and you enjoy listening to everything he has to say. This technique also creates attachment to a trusting and empathetic interlocutor, which in this case will be you.

And the last piece of advice - do not drag out your first date, especially if you see that the man is beginning to get bored or you have exhausted topics of conversation. Leaving first, you will leave the man with pleasant memories of your meeting and the desire to continue communication by inviting you on the next date. And to make an impression for sure, try to pleasantly intrigue your boyfriend and make him want to know more about you!

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