Do you think that family or career is more important in our life? I think so first you need something to achieve an apartment or a car and then you can build a relationship! I didn't succeed, I got married very quickly and we lived in rented apartments next to us, there lived a very kind grandmother, but she was old, I looked after her, cooked food, washed and everything else! when this grandmother was gone, I did not think that she would rewrite her apartment for me. this is how an apartment appeared in my life. Now my child is in the first place, and I'm not chasing money! What would be more important for you family or work?