How should we set boundaries?
First, mark them in your head! Before pestering a partner with ultimatums, you must clearly define your desires. Indicate what is uncomfortable in your partner`s behavior and why this is happening. It is not always someone else's fault for violating boundaries
As with all important conversations, the discussion of boundaries should take place in person. Discuss this as something that will help mend relationships, not alienate you. In what situations it is better to say “no”, why it is necessary to refuse, and in what situations it is really worth doing it without remorse. Be prepared for feedback and listen carefully 🤫
Repeat your request as often as necessary. In the worst case, it is worth limiting or stopping communication to show seriousness of intentions! Don`t forget why these boundaries are important to you, because you also have to play by your own rules, decide if you are able to comply with them before demanding it from someone...