First love is part of our personal history. Returning to adolescence, we are looking for a source of unspent strength in ourselves. It is important for us to make sure that our life choices are correct and to end relationships that have not received continuation. By parting with ideal images of the past, we can build new relationships in real circumstances. When we experience success, when our quality of life changes or we go through a personal crisis, we need to feel something unchanging, permanent. In order to preserve our identity, we seek support from the past.