In my understanding, to love, it means, first of all, to give something of your own, your kindness and your emotions to someone. but when a person in this very love wants to get some benefit, to get something for the fact that he loves someone, then this is a consumer attitude to love and I do not like it at all.

Many people say that in fact there is no love, but there is a habit. In part, I can agree with that, too. Habit, after all, is also a kind of love, something that a person cannot live without, something that he is comfortable with. After all, as you know, there are also bad habits that a person wants to get rid of. But if it is good for him in marriage with a woman and it has already become a habit for him, then he will not get rid of this relationship in any case.

And what is love for you ?