try to prioritize the following 5 categories: your job, yourself, your children, your partner and your loved ones. For convenience, it is advisable to present these categories in a table and next to each criterion indicate a number from 1 to 5 in order of priority:
In the first place: Regardless of gender, you should always be on your own
In second place: You must have a beloved man or woman.
Children should be in third place.
In fourth place should be joy to provide for children.
In fifth place are relatives (friends and acquaintances)
What are your priorities?