But you don't want to wait and give yourself time to figure out exactly what you want. And instead of gaining and accumulating experience, you are looking for feelings and excitement, flavored with the scent of romance. And when you are looking for feelings, you come across not the best representatives of humanity. But even at this moment you do not stop, but fall in love with another “gray cobblestone”, while vainly convincing yourself: “I will turn it into a diamond! It will change! " In order to later realize with bitterness that no one was going to change.

But why did you decide that love needs a change? True love never needs them. True love accepts people for who they are. She is inherently already patient and kind. You absolutely don't need to change anything or anyone! And if the relationship does not look patient and kind, then it is no longer love. If you want to change a person, then this is anything you want, but not love. Perhaps it is passion and lust. And perhaps this is a condition for love: "If you become the way I want to see you, then you will be my ideal partner, my soul mate."

When people show you their true essence, believe! Believe that they are what they are. And do not waste your precious time with a person if you see that he treats you worse than you deserve. Never allow yourself to be surrounded by people who show their essence, and who are ready to peck you to the bitter end. If you allow them this, then every time they invade your space, they will take a piece of your soul from you ...

Therefore, the next time you come across a "gray cobblestone" on your way, do not even think about filling out an invitation! Cross the street quickly! Remind yourself where your soul mate really is ...