She stops reworking and correcting others. In a sense, it gives up where it is pointless to fight. And, surrendering, allows the man, children and all other people next to him to be as they are. She does not pretend to be a martyr, "resigning herself" to the shortcomings of another. She really, many times leaning against the wall, realizes that the wall is stronger than the forehead. And the wall stands for something in this place. And in no other ...
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⠀⠀ After going through denial, anger, bargaining and grief, she accepts reality as it is. And he begins to pay attention to what is in common between loved ones. She becomes grateful to every centimeter of the contact area that is between her and her loved ones.
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⠀⠀ A mature woman is capable of transforming so many things into joy and pleasure. Find it in all stimuli, events and phenomena. Not because she does not want to experience anything else, but because she has found enough creative strength in herself for processing and transformation.
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⠀⠀ She knows how to live sadness, but does not multiply and does not seek it. She knows how to find joy, but does not insist on it, but simply allows it to come.
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⠀⠀ She respects her path and experience, going through shame and self-denial and coming to a deep understanding of herself, and through that of life.