"You should give more and not think what you will get in return" - when I heard this phrase from my mother, I did not understand what she wants from me and why I should give something to someone, and do not even think about what I will get instead. And yes, I will be frank, I did not get along well with my peers or with guys, or rather, this partnership was not long and emotionally dependent.
But after 27 years, I seriously thought about this phrase.
"What if I try to do this?" - I thought to myself.
And I started helping people, my friends, colleagues, without expecting anything in return. I gave my time, knowledge, shared skills. And I noticed what a happy woman I am becoming. Now I am becoming happier day after day, there is a smile on my face from the words of gratitude addressed to me, I feel great. I have learned to trust and help people and be mutual person. And I made an important conclusion for myself - it is impossible to build a normal long-term relationship without the ability to give rather than receive. And that was my biggest mistake in my previous relationships with men. Therefore, I really want to create my new harmonious relationship with a man, using this principle.
And I hope I can do it thanks to this site.
We have a proverb in Ukraine: "Mom is always right." And yes it works)
Thanks for reading,
Inspired Tanya