In everyone, it is found somewhere in a forgotten and retracted box at the bottom of the soul.
The one who didn't need to prove anything.
Whose love did not need to be earned by grades, "good behavior", music school, knowledge of mathematics ...
In order to see happiness on his face, it was not necessary to wash the entire apartment. And also - skirting boards. You just had to be. To get into the good field of his gaze - and warm up, be surprised: “I - exist!” And how wonderful I am if they love me so much for nothing.
Remember.
He was pleased with your presence. His smile did not need to be traded for obedience. There was no feeling next to him that you were falling short of something, disappointing, not quite right ... In his presence you could relax and be yourself. No more, no less. Without tension, without anxiety, you cannot reach and disappoint. His love gave hope that you were all right. His love without conditions and requirements turns out to be the most important treasure of your soul.
For some reason, they often remember those whose love had to be achieved. Fight. Deserve. Try. Those who demanded and did not recognize. Those with whom there was a lot of tension. And those who simply loved unconditionally are forgotten. They are like air. Just a warm day at my grandmother's. Just on my dad's shoulders. Just happy holidays with aunt.
But when you remember, you know what it turns out to be?
That these are the most important people in your life. Those who gave unconditional love - as simple as warm grandmother's hugs. Days of serenity. The joy of being yourself. Happiness.
Remember.
And please share who it is in your life? You will be surprised how many tears of gratitude are in your soul for this person.
I was lucky, in my life there were several such people.
And who do you have?)
Anna