"Here is my sister's wedding in front of you: Here she herself gets drunk regretting that she got married. The third time, by the way. My mother is so jealous that snakes are already hissing in her hair. And I think that everything is great, we have three feminist archetype: Babylonian harlot (sorry), medusa and me - who am I? What is my archetype? Virgin Mary? Thanks, no! A devoted servant, a constant witness, a bride in dreams. Nevertheless, this proves Jung's idea that myths and archetypes exist and coexist perfectly in my apartment. As I stood at the altar next to my sister during her marriage, it dawned on me that this ritual, called marriage cerimony, is in fact the final scene of a fairy tale, because they never talk about what happened next, because we are not told that Cinderella drove the Prince crazy with her abnormal passion for purity, because, that I missed my main job. We are not told what happened afterwards, because "then" does not exist. How do romantic love stories usually end?Sex? -No no no! Wedding? exactly! But, this is not always the case! In the 12th century, the notion of exquisite love, which had nothing to do with marriage and had nothing to do with sex, emerged. In most cases, it was characterized as a relationship between a knight and a married lady of the court, which never reached the point of intimacy. They had to rise above ordinary ideas. about love, you know, like, we take a bath without embarrassment of each other. And they were looking for something divine in love. They subtracted sex from the equation and got a spiritual union. Just think! Sex has always been the last straw in the cup of love. Pay attention to the literature of that time - Lancelot and Genevieve, Tristan and Isolde. Marriage only leads to madness, despair and death. Experts, scientists and my aunt Esther are united by the belief that the real love is distinguished by a spiritual connection. While romantic love is only a lie, an illusion. The modern myth is nothing more than soulless manipulation.By the way, manipulation is like a movie. Remember, we see on the screen: we see kissing lovers on the screen, and the music pours and we believe it, and then, when my companion kisses goodbye, and I don’t hear the symphony in my head, I then throw it. in why we believe, we believe because be it myth or manipulation we all dream of love. Isn't it true? Why? After all, it is Love that fully revives us, all feelings are exacerbated, all emotions are intensified, everyday reality collapses and you and I soar in the clouds. It can last a minute, an hour, half a day, but this does not detract from its significance, because memories remain that We will keep it until the end of our lives. And I read an article here that said that when we fall in love, we hear Puccini in our head. I liked it, and do you know why? His music fully reflects our craving for passion in life and in romantic love, and when we listen to "Bohemia" or "Turandot" or read "Wuthering Heights" or watch "Casablanca" a piece of that love comes to life in us. So, the last question - Why do people dream of love, although it can calmly gather dust on the shelf, without bringing devastating pain? - Desire for procreation? Psychological desire for communication? may be! Cultural traditions? - good answers, but they are too clever for me! I think the whole point is that, as many of you probably know, if this is true Love, then this is just an awesome Feeling!"