in any relationship, there are quarrels. there's no getting away from it. and even if they open the front door for you and say "GO AWAY", you should not run out of it. and wait, think about it, do you know exactly what you need? should you leave now and give up everything? without even trying to solve everything peacefully?
conversations help to solve all the problems. relationships are built on trust and understanding. it's what holds everything together. all of the family. you need to learn to hear each other. and then, only then, there will be peace and harmony in the relationship.