It is so strange that animals do not have this choice, but they are always in harmony with themselves, following only their animal instincts and inner instincts, and over the years a person listens less and less to his inner voice, so often rejecting his intuition and the call of his heart, everything more listening to the arguments of reason that he almost completely lost this connection with the universe, that very connecting thread responsible for a harmonious life on earth.
And everything in the world is simple, darkness always borders on light, side by side, alternately yielding power to each other, and only a person, by his intervention, introduces chaos into the harmonious existence of the universe.
We try to artificially illuminate our lives in various ways, with all kinds of tinsel, as soon as our own little world plunges into darkness, without even thinking why it suddenly became dark and the light dimmed. But nothing comes out of nowhere, everything has its own reasons, and even in the midst of a seemingly pitch-black, prolonged darkness and cruel cold, the "northern lights" suddenly flare up with the brightest light, carrying with it something so bright that it instantly crosses out the time spent in darkness.

We have forgotten how to wait and think, we want an eternal holiday, both in our souls and around us, we deny the existence of dark forces in ourselves, noticing them only in other people, thereby disturbing the balance and artificially attracting even more dark forces to ourselves, causing a violation balance of good and evil, disharmony, which in turn leads to even greater troubles. In every corner of the vast universe, as in our world, there is its own ratio of light and darkness, somewhere it lasts for 24 hours, somewhere for half a year, where the darkness is thicker, then the light is brighter then, but it cannot be changed in one place so as not to bring chaos to the other. So in every person there is something more and something less, but we forget at the same time that even the darkest person carries light within himself, even if no one sees it.
Looking for a mate for a harmonious union, knowing that a person is not ideal by nature and carries both light and darkness, we still cannot come to terms with something gloomy in our chosen one or friend, thereby destroying ourselves, harming our own harmony ... Accepting yourself entirely, realizing your dark sides, listening to your inner voice, balancing on the edge and looking for something light and bright in other people, without closing your eyes to dark spots is the only way to inner harmony, the only way to find the formula for a harmonious union.