Women are very emotional. Therefore, for them, love experiences become the head of everything. Everything goes deep into the "I'm good" attitude. For them, it is important to know "Do you love me? "Why do we demand proof of love?"

Psychologists recommend not to separate such concepts as" I "and"My result". I advise you to act in accordance with this attitude of "I remain good, even if the result is lower than desired". This situation is generally relevant in all spheres of life – in sports, career, and personal life.

Experts say that most of the problems are from childhood. People who have been loved with unconditional love have almost no problems. Under this concept should be understood love, despite everything, despite the error, the incorrect behavior, expectations, etc. In such a relationship is respect. It gives a sense of calmness at a basic level, a kind of balance.

But in cases where they love only for some successes, achievements, fulfilling the expectations of mom/dad/teachers, a person develops self-doubt, low self-esteem. And then they begin to wonder where to expect love. They look for it in events, people, and actions, and not always successfully. In childhood, such people sought to win the love of their parents, and in adult life they are guided by the attitude "I will be comfortable and good", which is extremely wrong. They believe that you can only love for something that you need to earn a good attitude.

Unconditional love can only be received from parents and caregivers. It is impossible to get it from a partner in a relationship. In adult and mature relationships, both partners give each other an equal energy exchange. Modern marriage is mainly a mutually beneficial cooperation. If both have a need to fill in the evidence of a love relationship-a tragedy can occur.

It manifests itself in people who enter a marriage with a love deficit. They begin to demand the satisfaction of momentary whims, their own weaknesses, and material values. Everything can even turn into blackmail with demands to prove their feelings, to manipulation, including in intimacy. And this does not contribute to the development of healthy love and relationships.Now it is clear why we demand proof of love, but it is not clear what to do if in childhood we were not loved with unconditional love. Theta-healing sessions can come to the rescue. There, people are taught to feel the Creator's unconditional love for themselves, to find it inside. And then a person is filled with high vibrations from within, balance and confidence come to him, vain expectations leave, life becomes better.