We often look for proof of whether we are loved and whether this feeling is real. But we don't even think about whether we love or only imitate our passion.
There are a lot of cases when a person invents great love for himself, and then is surprised that he is unhappy. This happens to both men and women. We do not notice this, and over time we step on the same rake again.
It is difficult for a person to be himself. After all, having finally found our man for real, we are afraid of losing him. We do not want to repeat the mistakes of the previous relationship, in which we did not look the best.
We think that we will not miss our happiness and begin to work hard on our relationship. We become the best cook for our soulmate, an attentive listener and an interesting companion.
Our partner is delighted, of course. He did not even expect to find such happiness. At first he admires, then gets used to it and begins to take everything for granted. We, tired of this role and emotional overload, and not receiving the expected gratitude, begin to pour out our irritation on our beloved.
It becomes a cold shower for him. After all, he believed that he had really met a supergirl.
We, on the other hand, feel guilty for falling out again and failing to be perfect.
The most annoying thing is that we think that our relationship has not worked out again precisely because of our imperfection. And this is our mistake. Because instead of love, we were guided by childish fear. We were afraid to be abandoned.
A confident woman should ask herself, is she good in this relationship? Does she feel joy? Can you relax? Can he speak on any topic or just be silent?
Never be addicted to another person. This will never lead to anything good. Always be yourself and listen to your own heart.