What is a good, caring and loving man looking for in a woman?
He will often ask himself the following questions
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What about her eyes, lips (smile) (yes, both eyes and lips being particularly important)?
What about her mind, personality, beliefs, values, talents, past, experience, maturity, education, achievements, dreams, intelligence, curiosity, enthusiasm, heart, soul, body?
Does she feel good with herself?
Does she have a mind of her own (positive connotation)?
Is she (he of course doesn't expect her to have all the following qualities (traits))
good, humble, simple, open, honest, respectful, caring and loving, loyal/faithful (a one man woman), communicative, considerate, understanding (one who can listen with empathy), full of humanness, ethical, altruistic, equitable, forgiving, generous, sharing, cultured, refined, reflective, with depth, sensitive, supportive, determined, meritorious, hard studying/working, responsible, trustworthy?
Is she family oriented (valuing family life, children, education, pedagogy, healthcare)?
What people does she admire?
What truly moves, touches her?
What are her interests, likes, passions, tastes?
What about
- History, philosophy (maybe ethics, political philosophy), law, political science, economics, business administration (maybe accounting, finance), biological and physical sciences, psychology, literature, cultures of other people, languages, arts, theater, music (maybe classical, popular, rock and roll), dance (maybe ballet, choreography, social dance, Latin American dances (tango), folkloric dance, slows), drawing, painting, sculpture, architecture, design?
- Books, music, songs, movies, photos?
- Cooking, fashion, clothes, shopping?
Does she appreciate, like to have good, healthy fun, to smile, laugh, be mischievous, playful, witty, to spend time with good friends?
Does she value reading, writing, exercise, sports, fair play, team play?
Does she have any favorite quotes?
What importance does she attribute to the body, sensuality, sexuality, lovemaking?
What about
- Sensuality, sexuality, lovemaking being good, natural, simple, in good taste, refined, healthy, honest, respectful, caring and loving, romantic, faithful, communicative, considerate, understanding, ethical, meaningful, responsible, trustworthy, renewed, varied, erotic, suggestive, playful, that there be plenty of them, to our heart's content, with much foreplay?
- Giving as complete contentment, pleasure, satiety, satisfaction as possible to her lover (and of course expecting the same from him)?
- Being open, somewhat liberated, uninhibited, ready to abandon herself to her lover (after he has earned her trust, and again of course expecting the same from him)?
- Facts, myths, taboos?
Does she consider herself a little ring, part of a long chain (humanity, in time and space)?
When her time will be up, here on Earth
- What will she have done for others, what will she have brought to others?
- How would she like to be remembered, what would she like people to say of her?
That's all for now, folks! (Wink!)
Charles