There are no perfect people! We are all different, each of us is a person! So why, in spite of this, is society more and more intrusive trying to fit our children under the “ideal” bar?
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How do you see this most “ideal” child? 🤔 He is always silent, eats and sleeps on schedule, and for hours sticks to drawing / reading / modeling / ceiling, etc., allowing his parents to live their usual life before he appears? He never hysteria, does not defend his needs and boundaries? Or does he always and everywhere walk exclusively next to his mother and at the same time greet unknown grandmothers?
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Wake up people! Our children are no different from adults - they are the same PEOPLE! Each of them has its own character, temperament and needs! Stop labeling them with “good” or “bad” labels! There are no bad children in nature! There are children who do not get proper attention and education, but this does not make them bad!
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It is necessary to take into account the desires of children and not suppress their emotions, but at the same time do not allow permissiveness. Simply put, we need to be our children’s best friend without losing the authority of a parent.