To find your soul mate, soul mate, friend of the heart – a great rarity and infinite happiness, not earthly. I think that what happens to each of us is not accidental. A person was born and his whole life path is predetermined from above, whether we want it or not. That's probably why they say that marriages happen in heaven. The Lord sends us a companion or companion from above. "A man will cleave to a woman, and the two will become one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man put asunder". Or does not send... "Don't be born beautiful, but be born happy".
Life is such a complicated thing, without brakes and traffic lights, especially lately. Yes, and with fake, poisoned recipes: what to do, how to be, whether or not to seek reciprocity... There is no digestible answer to them, because we are all different. How many people, so many opinions, and love stories, with an end or continuation. So many human destinies with a sad and happy outcome.
It seems to me that happiness, like a multicolored rainbow after rain, is a fleeting phenomenon, disappearing before our eyes. It was and suddenly it wasn't:

Both right and left hand –
Your soul is close to my soul.
We are contiguous, blissfully and warmly,
Like right and left wings.
But the whirlwind rises – and the abyss lies
From the right-to the left wing!
Marina Tsvetaeva wrote these lines in 1918, but how accurate, subtle and modern!
I wish you all sincere, mutual and not earthly happiness!