For some reason, love is very often associated with suffering. For some reason, so many people suffer because of love. "My heart is broken", "I am wounded to the core", "Love kills", in the same category: "All men ...", and accordingly "All women..." Why is it so? My opinion is because many people just really like to suffer. Somehow it so happened that some people want to be pitied, and most importantly love it. They want to be unhappy and suffer. I think that many people will not agree with me now, because the stereotype of "unhappy love" is firmly and even ineradicably stuck in many people's heads. Why is that? Let's figure it out. Even from school, teenagers get acquainted with literary works about unrequited love, about love that leads to death. This is the "Garnet Bracelet" and "Hero of our Time" and "Eugene Onegin" and "Anna Karenina". Love is always sacrifice, tragedy, remorse, and loneliness. Modern culture is not far behind. Especially the music industry. How many people listening to songs about breakups, go through their failed relationships. That is, the definition: love=suffering is formed in the minds of people from childhood and is firmly established there.