Good day!
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A man who believes in monogamy, faithfulness can only live with, love one woman.
But this shouldn't prevent, stop him from appreciating other women.
I feel indebted to all the women on this site who kindly, lovingly wrote, write to me.
You help me to better understand, love women, and to become a better man, person.
And I'd like to help you to better understand, love men, and to become a better woman, person.
For me (and for each and every one of you too, I hope), a woman has
a mind, personality, beliefs, values, interests, tastes, likes (concerning people, activities, things), qualities (traits), talents (social, artistic, sport), a past, experience, maturity, an education, achievements, dreams, a heart, soul, body, all of which a man should appreciate.
She of course also has intelligence, in addition to curiosity, enthusiasm, passion.
Yes, you seek love, and I understand that.
But, please, keep this in mind.
- "The unexamined life is not worth living."
Socrates
- "Self-actualization
"What a woman/man can be, she/he must be." This quotation forms the basis of the perceived need for self-actualization. /
This level of need refers to the realization of one's full potential. Maslow describes this as the desire to accomplish everything /
that one can, to become the most that one can be. People may have a strong, particular desire to become an ideal parent, /
succeed athletically, or create paintings, pictures, or inventions. To understand this level of need, a person must not only succeed /
in the previous needs but master them."
From Wikipedia, Maslow's hierarchy of needs
- "Ask not what a woman/man can do for you, ask what you can do for a woman/man."
Adaptation of a quote from JF Kennedy
- A woman and a man are equal, though of course different; they need, complement each other.
- Friendship is also quite important.
I believe each and every one of us is sort of a little ring, part of a long chain (in time, and space) which is humanity.
When our time is up, here on Earth,
what will we have done for others, what will we have brought to others?
I truly wish to each and every one of you a Happy, Meaningful, Reflective, Warm Valentine's Day, this Sunday!
And to find not only love, but friendship, self-actualization too!
Thank you so much for your love, friendship!
Hug, and kiss on the cheek, to each and every one of you,
Charles aka Carlos, Karl, 查尔斯… (Wink!)