Explanation of life. Who is the lucky lady whose name is Elena from Sevastopol. She has everything going for her but love in her life in which she is fixing that soon. But of course there are so many Elena's on this site but I am sure she knows who she is. Got you thinking huh! She is a blonde but yet, there are many Elena's who are blonde's on this site. The Elena I am speaking of has everything she could ever want. She doesn't need a man for anything but true love in her life. So, that leads me to this conclusion, she will make a great woman to have next to me. She knows what ups and downs are in life because she has lived it. She has pulled herself up from a devastating life and had enough Faith in herself to be where she is in life.

The Moral of this is, how can some women say they will make a great wife if she has never experienced what life entails. Marriage is not an experiment, it is a very serious thing. I have lived through those ups and downs in a marriage and I know what it is when a woman gets married simply for stability or prestige just because her friends got married and she thought it was time for her to do the same until she found out marriage wasn't a Soap Opera kind of life. Then, there came children and to tell you truthfully, it was like seeing a child raising another child. A man doesn't need a child for a wife, he needs a woman. Women are from Venus and men are from Mars with two totally different thought patterns. Some women will tell a man exactly what he needs to hear as man do have a tendency to listen well but as time goes by, a man should take away her beauty and body from his mind and see her for what she truly is, uncover her and expose her inner self and man will be surprised at the revelation of his findings. A man picks a wife, a mate, a lover, and a woman to bare his offspring's. A woman who will embody him like a mirror, embellish him as the true and great man that he is. A formidable best friend, a lifetime companion through thick and thin or hell and high water as the old saying goes. And once man knows how to read a woman, he will know what he is up against.