To all of you ladies:
I have received so many letters from you. I have read them all. I have gone to many of your profiles to read and understand who you are. To see what kind of man you desire. There are many men out there for you. Choosing is most difficult. What does a real man want? I cannot speak for all men, but I feel I have a grasp of most men.
First, ladies, please read our profiles. It is very apparent when you don’t by the the content of most of your letters. If you truly want to engage with a real man, meet him on common ground. A few of you have done this, and received a response from me.
Second, please be confident in yourself. A real man cannot mold a beautiful person—as all of you are—like a potter with clay. Your are unique. You are made by God in the perfect way as your are. Too many of your are more concerned with your physical being than what your character is. Some men are pigs and only care the size of your breasts or the beauty that make-up can create. The rest of us, the real men, love your natural beauty. Botox and silicone are not what makes you beautiful. You do NOT need that. A few of you have dared to send your pictures in natural beauty. Thank you! Your are so much more beautiful than with your cosmetics.
Third, ladies, age is not important, but at the same time, age is important. Are is generally but a number. But with age, comes different experiences. To you “older” ladies who have written to me, you compete very favorably with younger girls. Not with make-up and Botox, but with learned love and experience. Young ladies, your experience will come. But you have a very wide eyed world of discovery before you. Your youth has not yet jaded you to the world. That is also refreshing. There are ladies here of all ages that interest me and I am sure that I could spend the rest of my life with an 18 year old as easily as a 59 year old. Age is not the defining factor.
Fourth is correspondence. You must understand the costs involved with writing to each of you. Reach out to the man, as often as you can. Be sincere, ask question based on hobbies listed in the profile. Look for clues as to what the man really wants in his section describing what he seeks. Look for clues of who he is in his about me section. If he is a real man, he has painted a quick sketch for you in the limited words about his entire life and who he seeks.
Finally, just be you. I for one like to look at the beauty of a woman. I cannot deny that men, real men, like your beauty, sensuality, sexuality, and character. There are “standards” that put pressure on you ladies and as a man I am glad we don’t have those standards. And yet you ladies hold all the cards when ultimately picking your mate for life.
I wish for each of you to find “the one” that will love you until he draws his last breath. Chivalry is not dead. Gentlemen do still exist. I know this from the inside.
Hugs and kisses to all.
Mike