Should you give a second chance or not? Should we give up all only cause of one made mistake? Relation is such a complicated thing and it doesn’t hand us a guide book when it comes in your life. And what a name it should have? “Love for dummies”?

When we are in relation, we try to be the best and not to show our bad features of character. But is it so right? To hide it and to think that with time it will not matter… Or to open all and to see a clean pair of heels on the horizon that were probably belonged to your beloved one.

As for me you don’t need to go from one extreme to another to be faithful with your partner. It depends on person what he/she wants to bring in relation: no lying, no cheating, no other sex friends, no jealousy or just no dirty clothes around.

But it is easy in our mind and on paper but no so easy in a real life and in relation between a man and a woman. We all are people and we all make mistakes in our life, we can’t be protected from this and always do only right things approved by our best intentions.

Should we give a second chance – perhaps a third? If more it sounds as just disability to break up and to look for something better.

As far as I am concerned, second chances are not for lovers, they are not for those who 50 years in marriage, they are for people who just started their relations. On the first stages we find out each other, we don’t know habits, desires, things that annoy or which are favorite, we know only that we like this person and probably it can lead to something much bigger. And it is not so hard to predict that while this process of mixing out complicated inner worlds we can make mistakes. Not easy to be solved but serious ones which can force us to think about not such a happy ending… Can a second chance save it? No one is perfect and give up after only one wrong step is the easiest way out but to forgive and to give a second chance is the an ability to fight with your ego.

Decisions that are made quickly and under impression can cause a feeling of regret about missed opportunities and unreturned consequences. The best way is to take a break and to think about it more properly, ask yourself which matter most and don’t hurry with burning all ships!

Alex