Do you know what people love to do the most? Justify your ugly actions. "I am constantly rude and rude because I had a difficult childhood", "I have gone through so many things, and it made me a heartless and cruel egoist", "I acted disgustingly with you, because I myself was hurt," etc. etc. It seems to me that an adult is different from a child in that he knows how to take responsibility for all his actions, and not shift them onto the shoulders of parents, teachers or friends. When you are little, your behavior can be attributed to the unfavorable conditions of your upbringing. But when an adult covers up his unwillingness to curb his temper or work on himself spiritually, the complexities of the environment in which he grew up or now lives, it looks unconvincing. We all come from childhood. And very few of us left the greenhouse. Everyone came into contact with the cruelty of this world, and with human meanness, everyone knows what mental pain is. Each! But a person is given the consciousness for this, in order to work tirelessly on himself, to grow spiritually day by day, and not in order to justify his mental laziness by the mistakes of his parents or the rudeness of the world.