Let's be honest - a person does care who makes him or her happy. Rather, he is trying to do it. It is impossible to buy a human heart. It is not sold for money or tenderness. Appreciation is acquired and won, even respect, but not love. The feeling of gratitude can one day turn into disgust, if only through it someone is near you, and your love into hate, if you constantly have to beg and even buy someone's attention - remember this. And do not be surprised that all your efforts are not perceived as you would like. No one is obliged to love in return, and desire alone is not enough here.
All phrases like: "Appreciate the one who is ready for a lot for you" do not work. Only reciprocity gives rise to sincere, reciprocal tenderness. It arises by itself and has no value - it is priceless. Love cannot be begged for and received as a reward if it is not originally there. We all want to be loved, but only by those from whom our heart itself turns into molten wax. Only in a person, from whom it goes into the chest and knocks like a hummingbird, with a speed of 1200 strokes in a state of flight, is our happiness. Only such a person we value immensely, without demanding anything from him. We thank everyone else politely or just tolerate. And if someone is not enough from us and the whole world to his feet, then for someone's happiness only one of our presence is enough.
It's why I am here. I want to have such love in life. And you?