◾The first impression is much more important than it might seem!
💋Elegant and sophisticated Coco Chanel, who was unlucky in love, but gifted with a talent to present herself to people, who was followed by thousands of fashionistas and who was admired by millions of men, despite the fact that her appearance was far from beautiful.
What, the great couturier, has captivated so many hearts? Precisely because she knew how to show her self in a way that would be admired. She conveyed this through her clothes, causing a lot of disagreement in tastes. I'm not writing now about Coco, and not about the style, but about how important is what people see when they meet you for the first time. Whether it's an online dating site or a real meeting. Many people say that the first impression about a person is deceptive, but is it so❓
I think that yes, the first impression is very deceptive, because we see only how a person wants to show himself. Getting to know each other better or learning more about a person, we discover a completely new personality! To become closer to each other, trust begins, and now, before you is not a selfish, narcissistic person, but the one who turns his fears into his weapons, the one who is afraid to show his sincere broken soul. And there are hundreds, thousands, millions of such people! You will never be sure who exactly the person opposite you is. But you will never forget the first impression of this person! The first memory when I saw and what exactly you felt at that moment)
Here, for example, imagine yourself from the outside. What would you say about yourself? You will only rate the appearance, won't you? But what if there is a soul underneath it all, completely opposite to what you see? Is the appearance really so important that it is time to forget about what treasures of the inner world can be seen in a person? How rich and spacious can this world be? No, I do not think so.
The senses. We remember our feelings. At a certain moment, each person getting to know you makes an impression on you, it can be both good and bad, but it is there and it causes a feeling. You may be the most fashionable, the coolest, the most diverse, but is that exactly who you are? Or do you just want to show people another person, hiding behind a mask? It seems to me that it is high time to forget fears and be yourself. No matter how many costumes, outfits, hairstyles you change, it will not change who you are!
It seems to me that sincerity has always been, is and will be my best feature. I want people to see me, remember a smile) It doesn't matter if we know each other or just crossed their eyes, "if you see a person without a smile, give him yours," I would like to give a smile, sincere and real, happy, which gives hope and faith in that everything will be all right for you, who is reading these lines now!
The first impression is important, even very important, but I believe that the soul is more important. Do not judge other people by what you cannot understand ..
Each person is unique and special, and everyone has their own vision of this world!
I show you, dear reader, how I see this world! Do you see this?
With love,
N.💋🥰
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