What are the causes of domestic violence?
I AM ABSOLUTELY AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, I WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD TO MY FRIEND, BECAUSE I AM A HONORABLE PERSON. I HAVE READ MANY BOOKS ON THIS TOPIC. PLEASE READ

Causes, types and consequences of domestic violence ... What happens afterwards, what kind of traces does it leave on the person?
Causes such as schizophrenia, paranoid disorder, antisocial or narcissistic personality disorders, alcohol and substance use, and impulse control disorders are among the causes of domestic violence.

Violence embraces our souls from all sides… We have become a society that clenches a fist even in the smallest of discussions and goes to a hard-handed object. Even the expressive tone of our words has hardened… This situation exists both in sports fields and it dominates the words and attitudes of political figures. We are on the way to become a society that thinks that it will express itself better by saying the word violently. Undoubtedly, the first seeds of violence are laid in childhood. Learned violent behavior in the family gradually becomes a form of behavior when it is supported by movies, TV and computerized violence games. The day does not pass so that there is no violence in our society. Third page news is always full of these… There are many reasons for violence. The most common of these is domestic violence.

- We define all behaviors that cause a person to be physically and mentally harmed, injured or disabled as violence.

-What are the reasons that feed violence in society?
While there are legal regulations for domestic violence, domestic violence is often hidden. Unfortunately, violence cannot be prevented due to legal deficiencies in this matter. Society on this issue; "Isn't her husband? She both beats and loves". Because of this thought, violence is accepted as a natural occurrence.

Violence is widespread all over the world. It is seen unfortunately at every socioeconomic level. Violence is perpetrated on the spouse, mostly women, children and elderly people staying together.

. 90% of the physical and sexual violence detected in psychiatric patients is committed by family members.

- But can individuals who have been subjected to violence express this hurtful situation they are dealing with?
- It must be admitted that only 35% of victims of violence can say this. Speech periods can also take 2-7 years. Another point to be noted here is that 80% of the victims think that "there is not much to do". He admits despair to those with this thought.

- This is the most striking point of the matter. Those who conduct research on violence and employees focus on three main reasons as to why. If we are to sort these; biological causes, psychological reasons and social causes.

If you want, let's start from biological reasons ..
-Of course. Among the biological reasons, the first place is the effect of male hormones (such as testosterone), which we call testosterone. Psychiatric diseases such as schizophrenia, paranoid disorder, antisocial or narcissistic personality disorders, alcohol and substance use and impulse control disorders are also biological causes.

- What does it take as psychological reasons?
-The desire to get rid of emotional pressure and responsibilities, to find a way out of the disappointments are among these. The psychological reasons of violence when growing up in a family where there is a lack of empathy and domestic violence are the psychological reasons.

Violence is actually a learned behavior. Therefore, being exposed to violence is a factor that causes violence. Another important point is a value judgment shared by the society. Another important reason that we cannot ignore here is the inadequate communication skills of the people who use violence. These people who cannot express their feelings and express their thoughts on a rational basis tend to resort to violence in solving problems.

In addition to faulty understanding of honor and morality, poverty and lack of education fuel this work. On the contrary, the fact that a woman's profession and income are better, just like the economic dependency of women, can create a complex in some people and unfortunately the end of the work can lead to violence.

-So, how is the course of the violence experienced within the family? Violence should not come out of nowhere. I guess there is a previous one.-Yes generally, domestic violence starts after the honeymoon period. We call it after the formation of spiritual bonds. There is a misconception here. The first act of violence is not perceived as violence. But violence tends to increase. Emotional bonds are weakened in marriage and fear begins in the victim. In case of divorce, there is a greater fear and anxiety of encountering violence. Then, feelings of embarrassment develop due to the possible reactions of the environment and family. If these situations are not overcome, a destructive life of marriage and imprisonment will be experienced. Since the most serious cost of violence is the realization of divorce, the dose of violence is increased and divorce is prevented.

-There is a situation we observe in families. There is violence and short periods of resentment are experienced, but then a period of reconciliation comes again for different reasons, but after a while, the violence resumes as soon as it stops. In other words, there is a vicious circle of violence.
- In families with tense and violence, this situation can often become a routine. Tension increases, bursts, pains, arguments and violence are experienced in the person. He is later apologized. An endless vicious circle emerges in families who have not received professional help and have not shown the will to resolve this issue.

-I want to clarify the photo a little more. What are the common characteristics seen in people who use violence? Can I have these in items?
- Of course… The characteristics seen in people who see violence as an option and are able to solve their problems in this way can provide us with data in terms of recognizing them. We can list them as follows:
- Willingness to control his wife's behavior
Jealousy
- Believe that your own needs and desires are more important
Irritability
Unrealistic expectations
Low self-perception
Tendency to blame others for their problems
Sudden emotional reactions
Impulsiveness
- Not to admit their wrongdoing

We can summarize the types of violence under four headings. These are Physical violence, emotional violence, economic violence and sexual violence. If we need to open them with one sentence; Shaking, mauling, beating, imprisonment, gunshot wound, killing is defined as physical violence.
We consider all mental health-damaging actions such as yelling, insulting, humiliating, threatening, and prohibiting communication under the heading of emotional violence. Prevention of work, forced labor, seizure of income, which are common in COUNTRIES, are also economic violence.
The fourth type of violence experienced is sexual violence. Marital rape, which is to force sexual intercourse without the consent of the person, is considered as sexual violence. Forcing to have sexual intercourse with other people, sexual humiliation, damaging the genitals are considered as sexual violence.

-These are the causes and types of violence. What are the consequences of those who have been subjected to domestic violence?
-Violence is a phenomenon that deserves to be handled and evaluated in a multifaceted way. There are many different branches of this subject, such as school violence, traffic violence, workplace violence, violence on TV, violence on the street, social violence and verbal violence. Violence of course has very traumatic and permanent consequences. These seriously affect the daily life of the person. It is not an issue that can be ignored, postponed and ignored. As a society and an individual, everyone has to be sensitive about this issue. The first stage of exit starts from here. When these results are examined carefully, it will become much more apparent that more sensitivity should be taken on this issue.

Let's first mention the physical consequences of violence: These are organ injuries, permanent injuries, death, growth and developmental delay.
Violence has psychological consequences that need to be dwelled on, and more importantly, the treatment of which takes time. Depression is one of these and is a medical condition that has become common in the society. Fear disorders begin, causing personality disorders violence. It should not be forgotten that violence in the family causes alcohol and substance addiction. Again, among the bad consequences of violence, suicidal tendency, tendency to violence, sexual dysfunctions and sleep disorders have an important place. After violence, a society with bad physical and mental health occurs. Psychological disorders and depression are also observed in the perpetrator. In other words, it creates problems not only for the exposed person but also for the person who causes it. Violence is like a double-edged sword that cuts both the perpetrator and the perpetrator.

I think everyone agrees on the prevention of violence.
- Undoubtedly, multifaceted studies should be done on this subject. Studies should be carried out more widely and effectively. As I tried to express above, everyone has a responsibility. First of all, we must accept that violence is not a problem solving method and stay away from the habit. The following can be considered as solution suggestions:

- Social and individual trainings: explaining what violence is
- Correction of wrong social understandings
- Providing consultancy services
- Psychiatric treatment of the relevant individuals
Active work of social organizations
- The fact that legal regulations are deterrent, that is, the penalties to be applied to the perpetrator are deterrent and similar studies
- Prevention of publications on violence in the written and visual media
The last word is an untrained individual always makes mistakes, women and children are the most beautiful beings in the world, please love them and value them, their imprisonment is the flower flowers always await attention, love and respect, that must strive for love.