How do we we start a chat that can elicit a response?
Maybe like this:
"Hi! How are you today? It's nice to see you here. I'm Mike. I am a Christian, a runner, and a lover of the outdoors."
This is a pretty good start of a chat or a letter. A friendly greeting, who you are sen though the avatar may give your name, it is still polite to say that. The a quick bit of who you are.

Next, you may want to prove that you have indeed looked at their profile. Maybe quote something from the profile and directly respond as such:
I see in your profile that If I think you can treat you like a woman, please write you how this would be!
I am an old fashioned gentleman. I prove that chivalry is not dead. Women should be treated with respect and honor.
or
I see you list one o your hobbies as cycling. That is also one of my hobbies. I am a road cyclist. What type of cycling do you do?

Hopefully something like that triggers the recent to respond.

Phrases like:
"if I kiss you it will be scandal if your woman see this?"
I am not going to answer.

"can I ask a question that interests me in your profile? Are you a bot ??? Information about you is true ????"
don't ask if you can ask me, just ask the question.
Of course I am not a bot. Text me and write me like I was standing directly in front of you. And yes the information about me is true.

A good way to learn if the information true, use the above methods of discovery to elicit a response.

As you converse through text and letters, you will find quickly what is true, particularly if your interests are common.

The lady that I have fallen in love with and I have shared many letters and some chats and a few videos. We know that we are indeed in love with each other. We had letters of interest to each other in the beginning. We had moments of discovery. We then shared our mutual love for each other. Soon we will be able to share our personal contact information.
For us, it all started with a simple but respectful letter showing a genuine interest in the person on the receiving end of that letter.

Ultimately, just be real with your chats and letters. Truth and genuineness will rise to the top.