✅1. It feels like you've known each other forever

You've only recently met, but you seem to have known each other almost since birth. Views on important things coincide. And it gives a feeling of comfort and intimacy.

✅2. You understand each other

Most often, you understand what a person wants to say without asking any questions. But some people come into our lives already prepared and correctly interpret what we want to convey. And this makes it very easy, because you don't have to waste time explaining.


✅3. Differences do not quarrel with you, but develop you

Even twins, for all their outward resemblance, are very different in character. What to expect from strangers, in fact, people. Naturally, you have very different qualities. But it goes without saying that you do not use them as a reason for quarreling. Differences in character and behavior allow you to learn from each other, making each of you more perfect.

✅4. You empathize

"Together for better or for worse" is not an empty word, this formula works both in love and in friendship. An empathic person can understand how a friend in trouble feels. And the pain of a truly close person is experienced as one's own.

✅5. Joy brings you closer

It is quite easy to sympathize with someone, but it is more difficult to share moments of happiness. If you are genuinely capable of this and do not envy, do not turn each other's achievements into an element of competition, do not devalue other people's successes, and this is mutual, then such a relationship is worth a lot.

✅6. You can be yourself

Usually, when meeting a person, they want to appear better than they really are. We reserve our oddities and eccentricities for those with whom we become closer. Although in this case, sometimes, we do not open up to the end.


✅7. You easily put up with each other's shortcomings

Relationships can be approached with different standards. More often, they are evaluated from the point of view of how much people invest in them, what they do, and how ready they are to change.

✅8. You are together because you want to be together

The main thing that binds you is the desire to be close, not external circumstances. If you subtract a joint mortgage, a joint business, or some other obligation from the equation, you will still communicate, and no better or worse than you do now.

✅9. Your quarrels are not the end of the world

You, like everyone else, argue and quarrel, but at the same time make up quickly enough. First, you value each other enough not to let the contradictions destroy the relationship. Secondly, you recognize each other's right to different opinions. Third, even in the heat of a quarrel, you restrain yourself from hitting the most sensitive pain points.

Thanks to this, the showdown does not end with cracks in them, you just step over the conflict and move on.

✅10. You just know it's him/her

It sounds subjective, but does the very concept of "soul mate" have anything to do with facts and logic? If you look at someone and see them as a reliable companion, without whom you would not be who you are, other evidence is not needed.

Is there a person in your life that you are willing to call a soul mate?