🟣 The desire to do everything together

It is very good when people are looking for something that will unite them, other than peach-scented toilet paper and a bed. It's bad when they try to really do everything together: play sports, go shopping, read books, and even work. Sooner or later, they will get bored with each other or simply stop communicating, because there will be nothing to talk about.

🟣 Hopes that the partner will change

Whatever it is! At least your appearance, at least your character, at least your lifestyle, at least your interests, hobbies, habits, or love of port wine, to which you are allergic. If you did not immediately notice this in the relationship, it is unlikely that it will ever suddenly appear.

🟣 Different temperaments of the partners

Of course, you need to love the way we are. But there is an important caveat: it is unlikely that people with opposite temperaments will be able to coexist in the same bed for a long time. For example, if I am calm and balanced, and a man can hang out for days on end, your relationship is doomed to quarrels, misunderstandings and, as a result, separation.

🟣 Problems with emotionality

Sometimes you can and should shout, beat the dishes and even slam this unfortunate door. But if your partner is too unstable, and his mood changes more often than the bitcoin exchange rate, it is unlikely that you will have enough nerves to cope with such "tides" of emotions for a long time. It is only worse if both partners have problems in this regard. Then the emotional swing will cause" nausea " in the relationship even faster.

🟣 Too active social life

You will be surprised, but many couples even during the lockdown period remained in sight. And it's not just about celebrities, bloggers, and influencers. Problems can also start if people are constantly trying to do something. Such couples simply do not know what it is to turn off their phones and spend a weekend together at home. They constantly need to go somewhere, do something, have some fun. And this is not always a plus for the relationship.

🟣 Lack of attention to the needs of the partner

Food in the house, warmth in the bedroom, and a new gadget are all fine. But sometimes such obvious needs of modern man hide less noticeable, but no less important requests.

🟣 Different work schedules

Objectively and clearly. If a woman works during the day and not at night, they have at best an hour in the morning or evening to see each other. And no amount of weekends and vacations will help restore the communication that couples lost because of work.