How do I understand communication? This is not just a conversation sliding on the surface, or a discussion of political, everyday, work events, or just just to hammer a pause. Such a conversation is not enough for me, and for me it is not communication, but an exchange of information.

In my understanding, communication is a frank, open dialogue, exchange of hearts and feelings, mutual frankness, sharing of impressions and a safe "territory of love", where you will never be kicked and will be accepted. And all this is called complicity, when you are interested in what a person thinks, how he thinks, how he sees the world, what feelings he experiences, what he dreams about and what he fears, and finally, what he expects from our relationship. Most likely - this is love for me. The rest of the questions are on a rolling basis .. One person said that it is precisely this kind of communication that helps to "resist in love."

There is such an understanding that it is necessary to "work" on relations. But how is it in practice? I am a person of practical application of knowledge and I always try to feel how it works in practice ..
BUT
Relationships are not just something abstract. A relationship is a person who is dear to you .. And naturally, if he is dear to you, then you will not even push yourself to do something good or pleasant to him. It will be a natural desire, and even a necessity.

Loving your neighbor as yourself is not a tortured result of long training and hard work, but a natural process that comes from the heart. And you don't have to rack your brains about what it means to work on relationships, build love and similar ideas .. It turns out that loving someone is to love just like you love yourself - you care every day, participate in life, wish good and success ... ...
I understand that I can only love, respect and support another as I love, respect and support myself. And this is wisdom, apparently ..