I'll take my example .. Suppose in my life I meet a person who is close to me and who is interesting to me as a person, I understand that feelings and desires are born to be with this person. And when I pray, I understand that God gives me a certain word and I feel His grace on this issue .. I have two ways - to sit in a hole and keep quiet, or to remain open and sincere, not to play ... (here such a nature) .. The result is that the person does not choose me. What? Is God Wrong, or Are Feelings Lying? And the most interesting thing is that God is right and feelings do not lie. I just narrowly understand the purpose.

Destination is when two people choose each other on the basis of free will and free feelings, this is when there is reciprocity and on the basis of this reciprocity a relationship is built. This is the purpose from above, nothing else .. Love implies relationships at all levels ...

It turns out that in the world there are for me those people whom I can potentially love, with whom we could build love and relationships, and for some men - I am an ideal woman, but love will be born when we choose each other .. And so far this is not , do not be upset with God and people .. Everyone makes his own choice ... Only you should allow God to be God, and people should love me and in the same way let them not love me .. And this is not their fault and this does not mean that I somehow didn’t come out, or something’s wrong with me, or I don’t live up to any standards .. No, I am what I am, and they will love me just like that, and I, in turn, will love exactly your person on the basis of reciprocity ..