First romance, first kisses, first love - this is what is remembered forever. However, it is rare when the first love affairs evolve into a really serious relationship. Over the years, a person perceives feelings more calmly, understanding all the negative and positive aspects. With age, a person is no longer so eagerly ready to dive into a passionate pool. An understanding of the essence of real relationships and what the soul really needs comes.

For those over 40, the problem of finding a partner, first of all, has a psychological background. Thinking in this way, they are afraid, stressed and nervous. Free 30-year-old ladies are panicky about their unmarried position, let alone 40-year-olds. Where do these beliefs come from? Often the whole snag is in the peculiarities of upbringing. The image of an old maid scares a woman, as if settling in her head almost in adolescence.
Today, ladies at first prefer to stand firmly on their feet, study and build a career, and only after the work brings a normal income, they raise the question of creation. Thus, the average age at marriage has increased by several years. The problem remains relevant for women who have experienced a break in marriage. They believe that no one can like it anymore, because they are with children and are no longer young. But they all have one thing in common: they are wrong. Women should discard such negative thoughts that, having crossed the stage of maturity, there is no chance of finding a partner, they do not need to personally label themselves as an old woman.
People can meet, fall in love and build relationships at any age. Well, let it be that someone is lucky to succeed with this at 20, for others the ideal age for love is mature. By the way, only mature people can build strong relationships a priori. And stereotyped beliefs and childhood fears are by no means a sign of an adult personality. It is necessary to keep youth in the soul, openness to new meetings and acquaintances. It is real to meet your love in any period of life, the main thing is that there is a readiness for this.
You should not narrow the circle of friends, cut back on communication, on the contrary, you need to be on the move and do what you love. And maybe then you will be lucky to notice people close in spirit nearby)